WHEN IS THE DIVORCE THE BEST CHOICE

Dear Friends ,

If you are reading this blog today is because you go through a divorce or you decide if it's the best choice for you.
The divorce goes through your mind when the couple goes through times of contradiction , doubt, jealousy and betrayal . When are these point out and despite repeated efforts to minimize them, you can not beat this idea , you should ask yourself clearly the advantages and disadvantages of facing a possible divorce , but we must be honest at this point and not get carried away by false palliative passing through the children, religión. society or family.
First of all, when a situation becomes critical partner and repetitively generates discord may fall in many cases verbal, physical or psychological must do some soul that leads us to make the best decision :• First, the couple will not change . This does not happen even though we have the illusion or promises he or she will change .• Second, no reason is enough to continue a relationship that has become harmful to the couple and the family. It is best to consider the separation and even divorce for mental health of all. Continue a troubled relationship pretexts for example , children, only brings more suffering and pain. Over time, parental separation is overcome by the children , but what they never could overcome are the wounds that are marked with violence in the family.• Third , religion holds in many cases it is better a couple discord that a divorced couple hold good of the family. This is false , and I can say from experience. The relationship with the children and even the former couple can be handled in a more controlled way when it has existed through a divorce . Insist on a troubled relationship can only lead to the destruction of the family and can seriously affect the self-esteem of the children .• Fourth, the attitude to build a healthy life for yourself. This is very important , turn the page and start building a decent future for yourself. Not necessarily involves looking for another couple , as this may take time , but find inner peace you require. We all deserve a chance to be happy and in this life only we have a chance .• Fifth , establish and enforce a respectful relationship with your ex partner. Once you've finalized the divorce , you can not extend the attack. You must put an end and begin a respectful but considering the limits you 've generated  when you have decided the separation . You can not demand more than the respect for another human being you require .
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Maia